The true art of Love

What could be the true art of Love? Marcus Gulvey, the former and famous leader of Pan-African Movement said that;

 > Never fall in love to the point of losing control of yourself. If you do, you will become somebody else´s slave and that experience will surely... cause you to lose your best character.

 > Never love a person more for his or her physical appearance or personality. First investigate the character, disposition, temperament, behaviour and thought of the person and when you find in that person, along with good physical appearance... all the qualities or as many of them as possible that would tend to satisfy you and make you happy through a lifetime, then love that person.

 > When you love one for the qualities you think that person possesses and those qualities are not fully developed, help that person to develop them... 

           

 > It is better to wait to find the person with the majority of the qualities you like, than to rush into loving for a minimum of those qualities. as soon as you get over your passion, you will still be searching for those other qualities... you will seek them elsewhere and break up your happiness.

 > Don´t put your absolute Divine trust in human love; because man is bad and is susceptible to change.

 > Never love anybody for companionship, unless that person has the majority of qualities that you like and appreciate.

 > The Negro has loved even under severest punishment. In slavery the Negro loved his master, he safe-guarded his home even when he further planned to enslave him. We are not a race of haters, but lovers of humanity´s cause.

> It was one of my greatest tasks to get Negroes to love one another. Thanks God I have succeeded in getting 11 million to know the art of true love, self-ambition and self-pride... it is no fault of your own to hate you own brother. It is the fault of the other fellow who taught you to hate the very mother that brought you into this world, in order that you might become a disorganized group... You must now cast off that old fashioned coat of hate and... Cultivate among yourselves true love, true fellowship, self-ambition, self-pride, self-respect, and when you have done that the world around will respect you.

 > The source of all good thought is love -Divine love; and now could we rise to loftier and nobler heights without emulating that love even to the human limit. It is the possession and the execution of this love... that makes the black man think kindly even of an offending world... These are the thoughts that inspire Divine goodness with patience, notwithstanding the vicious and wicked sins of men.